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Old 12-06-2006, 04:08 PM   Attended an OMGWTFKKWBBQ! KKWiki Contributer Senior Registered Member #21
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Things change after you hate the shit out of someone.
Hate is such a soul-destroying emotion. I'd never waste my time hating you. I don't even dislike you. I'm ambivalent.
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Old 12-06-2006, 04:29 PM   First Class Member KKWiki Contributer Administrator #22
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Actually hating you is extremely gratifying.
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Old 12-06-2006, 04:52 PM   Senior Registered Member #23
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can i play mod and tell everyone to quit bickering and get back on topic?
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Old 12-06-2006, 06:29 PM   Senior Registered Member #24
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anyway, i finished in like 2-3 minutes. we were able to do it a few more times, but the same result. i haven't had that much sex in my life to begin with, so i don't know HOW abnormal this is. i'm assuming it's not good, i just don't know HOW not good. in the past, i've used a condom, but she was cool w/ going au-naturale (skip the lecture as to why i shouldn't have done this, and yes i realize wearing one would numb the sensation a bit, but condoms just don't work for me... TOO insensitive, the exact opposite of what i'm talking about here)
Aww. It's alright, bro. Maybe sex just isn't for you. Don't fret, there's a lot of other activities your partner and yourself can participate in together. Things like sewing, golf, and crying. (There, there's my joke, I hope it's sufficient.)

But in more seriousness, I'm fearing the same thing (I am experienceless, so don't take my advice on the topic if I give any) and I've thought about it a lot. I think controlling an orgasm is a feasable task, but I don't know how it will fare with a girl-partner-vagina-thing. For example if you feel an orgasm approaching, if you slow down your pace to control it (which I think would differ it for a while) will the girl lose whatever stimulation she's feeling? Any type of answer ladies?

As for the tip holding thing, that may work. Not while masturbating though. I don't think masturbation would work as an endurance builder...because when you're being aroused and touched by a woman it's different than being aroused by, well, your own hand. Not sure, again, no experience.

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(my first time took AGGGGESSS. To the point where we both got frustrated by how long it was taking )
What took ages? Convincing her to have sex with you?
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Old 12-06-2006, 06:49 PM   #25
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For example if you feel an orgasm approaching, if you slow down your pace to control it (which I think would differ it for a while) will the girl lose whatever stimulation she's feeling? Any type of answer ladies?
No, I doubt it. I wouldn't, at least...I prefer slower, harder sex, rather than like...fast rabbit sex.
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As for the tip holding thing, that may work. Not while masturbating though. I don't think masturbation would work as an endurance builder...because when you're being aroused and touched by a woman it's different than being aroused by, well, your own hand. Not sure, again, no experience.
No, it definitely is VERY different. I've never had to take the advice in question, I just heard it on a trashy TV show. It may well be wrong, I mean, really, what do these people know? Everyone's different anyway.

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Old 12-06-2006, 09:52 PM   #27
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My advice is to learn how to relax your pelvic floor muscles. They're the muscles you contract when you're trying to not piss and ALSO the muscles that contract when you're getting ready to shoot your load. If you can learn to consciously relax them you'll be able to stay longer. That was advice from some Brit sex-therapy show that I saw last year, the dude was getting off too quickly so they told him to flex & unflex those muscles at least 10 minutes a day and you'll be able to become an energizer bunny like Sting and his 12 hour tantric sessions. If you're doing it right your not-hard member will move up and down. Another tip would be to stop your piss mid-stream and re-start it.

This also works for females if they want to make their partner work for your getting off. It's the classic Kegel Exercises.
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Old 12-06-2006, 10:23 PM   Officer #28
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can this compensate for being so quick in bed?
Probably not.


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what is the average time that YOU LADIES experience?
30 minutes to an hour, if at all.
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Old 12-06-2006, 10:32 PM   Attended an OMGWTFKKWBBQ! KKWiki Contributer Senior Registered Member #29
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My advice is to learn how to relax your pelvic floor muscles. They're the muscles you contract when you're trying to not piss and ALSO the muscles that contract when you're getting ready to shoot your load. If you can learn to consciously relax them you'll be able to stay longer. That was advice from some Brit sex-therapy show that I saw last year, the dude was getting off too quickly so they told him to flex & unflex those muscles at least 10 minutes a day and you'll be able to become an energizer bunny like Sting and his 12 hour tantric sessions. If you're doing it right your not-hard member will move up and down. Another tip would be to stop your piss mid-stream and re-start it.

This also works for females if they want to make their partner work for your getting off. It's the classic Kegel Exercises.
Aye, I've done those. Not necessarily sure if they work, as I tried them before I ever had sex (I was determined not to be a three thrust wonder), and I've not got anything to compare it to, but I do keep a woody every time I orgasm, and I do have SOME control to delay the onset, which would suggest maybe they did.

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30 minutes to an hour, if at all.
Heh. There speaks a bitter woman. *cuddles* You poor thing.
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Old 12-06-2006, 11:35 PM   Officer #30
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Haha, noo. I'm not bitter...really. My guy is great in the sack. It's MY problem.
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Old 12-06-2006, 11:44 PM   #31
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My friends joke with me about my ability for popping off fake orgasms in public places (almost got kicked out of the Hotcake House on Saturday for it). They always ask me if the reason I'm so good at it is because I've had to fake an O in the throws of not-so-good passion. My answer back is always, "Hells no, I've never had to fake an orgasm while having sex. If the person isn't doing their job I'm giving them written and oral instructions on how to service me. If that still doesn't work I'll just push them off and show them how it's done!"

It's been too long since I've had sex with another person to know how long it takes me to cum. I know when I'm servicing myself it doesn't take that long cuz I just want the O so I can continue on with my day without feeling randy and I know WTF I'm doing so it's quick and to the point.
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Old 12-06-2006, 11:52 PM   Officer #32
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HA... if there were an award for faking, I'd win. Or lose, actually.
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Old 13-06-2006, 12:19 AM   Attended an OMGWTFKKWBBQ! KKWiki Contributer Senior Registered Member #33
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I've always thought that OD's approach is better than faking. Just tell the guy what he's doing wrong. That way you won't have to fake next time.
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Old 13-06-2006, 12:50 AM   #34
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i was always under the impression that in straight sex guys are often selfish and finish first? am i right?
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I dunno about the whole sex with guy thing...I'm a lesbian after all.

Katie - like you I hear that the guys can't take it to the limit and get the girl off with pure penetration...usually have to warm her up with oral and fingers first.

Emotion - girl...if you can get yourself there teach your BF to do it too. It's quite easy for a partner to do it once they've received instructions. Try masturbating in front of him...he can take mental notes and get the hint as to what you like.

Haz - Seriously, if you're left not satisfied and frustrated then you might as well write out instructions on how to do it. I like to call it: Getting Me Off for Dummies or the Untalented.
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I dunno about the whole sex with guy thing...I'm a lesbian after all.

Katie - like you I hear that the guys can't take it to the limit and get the girl off with pure penetration...usually have to warm her up with oral and fingers first.


they should take a leaf out of our book, oral and fingers is more than enough to get us off, more than once, why guys dont try it?
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Old 13-06-2006, 01:26 AM   #37
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Amen to that sistah! My brother wanted me to give up my "I learned from lesbians" t-shirt so that he could get plenty of ass. I cracked up at his reason, "Al...don't you see, if I wear this t-shirt all the girls will think I've got mad oral skills, c'mon please...I need some pussy for christ's sake!" I just shook my head and said it was staying tacked up to my wall where it belonged.

And guys, don't watch pornos for tips...they don't know anything when it comes to skills. If you're REALLY having a hard time with oral I suggest doing what I call Alphabet Soup - use your tongue to lick out the letters of the alphabet against her clit. That is your only lesbian tip you will receive from me *mwah*.
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Old 13-06-2006, 01:48 AM   #38
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i really hate it when guys complain about going down on a girl, i find it so satisfying to do to someone not to mention its totally yummy and i could do it all day if i was given the chance.
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Well, that's the thing. I've done everything, said everything, been aggressive, been passive, been mean, been nice...and so has he. It just doesn't always work out for me. I'm actually okay with it. I think.
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Old 13-06-2006, 02:29 AM   Senior Registered Member #40
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i cant stand sex longer than 20-25 minutes.
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