How long can you last?

really, only 25%? Wow, well I will change my statement. But not to 25%

50% of guys
100% of girls

At least in my town a girl feels obligated to have sex. Lousy seniors doing sophomores...They go for the older guys.


so 75%

[hasselbrad]

Kyle,
Sorry if my answer was vague, but it all really depends upon the situation. If she's really getting off, I may not last but a couple of minutes. The more turned on she gets, the more turned on I get, and it becomes absolutely impossible to control. If the sex is pedestrian, "oh all right...let's just get it over with" sex...it can go on for 45 minutes. Ah, sweet irony.
My point was that what you do is far more important than for how long.

Mandy,
How you doin'?

Seriously, I'm no sexual conquistador. I can barely get to my second hand counting the number of women I've been with. I've got a few "roadmaps" on how to get there, but women are like states. Each one's different, and the map for Alabama won't neccessarily help me navigate through Kansas.
Of course, sometimes it's fun to get lost...and you usually discover new, wonderful routes.

[ryan]

if you want to last longer, have more sex. or if sex isn't an option, masturbate until near orgasm, stop ('til limp), and repeat a few times. keep doing that a few times a week and you'll more than likely begin to last longer.

also, wear a condom (or better yet one that sort of numbs you a little bit so you last a little longer). less stimulation = lasting longer.

[gracie]

Originally Posted by ryan

if you want to last longer, have more sex.

haha like you could. cant pin em down long enough.

[ryan]

Originally Posted by gracie

haha like you could. cant pin em down long enough.

you weren't complaining last night.

[keira loves lipgloss]

Originally Posted by barrington

Good job that the female orgasm is utterly superfluous to reproduction.

why are you glad your not a women?

[hasselbrad]

...there is a similar technique you can try during actual intercourse. Thrust until you near climax, and then stop. Repeat. If you can do this, you will last until she throws you onto the floor.

[gracie]

Originally Posted by ryan

you weren't complaining last night.

are you confusing me with cliff again?

[ryan]

Originally Posted by hasselbrad

...there is a similar technique you can try during actual intercourse. Thrust until you near climax, and then stop. Repeat. If you can do this, you will last until she throws you onto the floor.

yes.
if you're close to orgasming during sex, pull out and perform oral for a little bit. it'll keep you plenty aroused but keep you from exploding. when you're ready for another go, just go back in.

[ryan]

Originally Posted by gracie

are you confusing me with cliff again?

he wishes.

[Hazzle]

You told me I was your one and only <cries>

Heh...poor Cliff gets dragged into this for no good reason...Gracie's mean...the least she could've done was drag my name into it...that's expected, as everyone else does it

Err...liked Hasselbrad's map and state analogy though...genius!

[ryan]

haz
you just smell bad.

[Mandy]

This entire thread makes me want to dial-up my booty call, BAD.

[barrington]

Shag, pull-out, stop, wait, repeat...?

Have you actually TRIED this approach? Your other half will get very pissed off with all this stop-start bollocks. (literally. heh) Doesn't work. There's only one answer for it - more sex, more often.

[apoggy]

Spoke like a true master

[hasselbrad]

Yes. Several times. Hasn't always worked, but it has more times than not.
The break can allow for changes in position...and it doesn't mean the sex has to stop...it can be continued with different *ahem* methods.

[barrington]

Changing positions is cumbersome and ungainly unless well rehearsed beforehand.
Porn has a lot to answer for.

[gracie]

^truth the only change that ever occurs here is a roll when im not going fast enough on top. which usually is not done smoothly.

[hasselbrad]

Oh, don't worry. That technique was used and positions changed after complete withdrawl. Any position change whilst still engaged were merely for a different thrust vector.

there's either something seriously wrong with me, either that or all you virgins have got the wrong idea....

It took me about a month with the girl i lost my V-Reg to before i could consistently orgasm at all through penitrative intercourse alone, not once was she ever able to bring me off with a blowjob or a handjob during our 10 month relationship (and before you say she was evidently shit, she's had many before me and many after). The one before that never managed to bring me off ever, 14 months of solo action only, not fun, however, she may have just been shit.

Another thing too, its not like its a bloody race, the objective is to enjoy yourself, not to spaff your load in the quickest time possible, or to hold on and deny yourself past the point of enjoyment for the sake bragging.

The other thing, the actual time always depends on my factors totally beyond my present understanding (i am but a young padawan).
So for the sake of completeness, i will list the shortest, longest, and my current of average (all rough estimates). All figures quoted as when doing these things only.

Handywork: 2min<- 5-10min -> "immune" (for want of a better word)

Blow job: only once has it ever worked by itself, that was when i was extremely horny for it, still took a good 5 minutes though, aside from that one time, i seem to be "immune"

Vaginal: i've totally misfired (spunked without orgasm) and splotched in about 30 seconds a couple of times, not sure why, i think it was stress <- 30-60min, a few 90min affairs -> "immune"

Anal: did it by itself once, for lack of a condom, it took about 10 minutes.



In response to barrington, I agree entirely, but thats all the more reason to practice, besides, 40 minutes is an awfully long time for a repetitive task.