Girls - What Don't You Like on Guys?

[ryan]

Originally Posted by Hazzle

He's kinda got you by the gonads there. Figuratively speaking, of course.

Cheese and romance are two very different things. And like Ryan said, clingy and appreciative are different too. Wanting to spend time apart, with friends or even alone, is a positive thing, and both people should be encouraged to do it. Anything less is clingy. However being romantic (be it small gestures like little notes or big ones like horse carriage rides) is a good thing.

It shows that you appreciate the other person. As long as it's not overdone. It only becomes cheese when you lack originality and spontaneity, or do it ALL the time. Like romance would be doing something nice for Valentine's Day, like a nice meal. Cheese would be buying a tacky card, roses, singing heart cushions, chocolates, teddy bears...you get the idea.

Ryan, would you disagree that women like a guy to be a LITTLE bit of a bastard? I don't understand why, but there's definitely something to the idea that if a guy's TOO nice and TOO sweet it can just get sickening, much as if a girl's too nice and lacks ANY strength of character, I find them puketastic. Plus it always makes me suspicious.

Cale - I don't hate you man. Just be a bit stronger about standing your ground. No woman is changing me. Back off bitch.

in my experience, women like the guy to be a little out of their control (occasionally), yet still know they can control him when necessary...
unfortunately, it is, in most cases, one extreme or the other where the guy is either a total pussy (the girl walks all over him) or a total dick (who doesn't give a shit).

girls are idiots and naturally LOVE dating the total dicks, get heart broken because they're too dumb to realize their boyfriend is an ass, and then bitch about wanting the "good guy", yet never realize it when one is right in front of them.

[Hazzle]

Originally Posted by ryan

in my experience, women like the guy to be a little out of their control (occasionally), yet still know they can control him when necessary...
unfortunately, it is, in most cases, one extreme or the other where the guy is either a total pussy (the girl walks all over him) or a total dick (who doesn't give a shit).

girls are idiots and naturally LOVE dating the total dicks, get heart broken because they're too dumb to realize their boyfriend is an ass, and then bitch about wanting the "good guy", yet never realize it when one is right in front of them.

Yeah, that's pretty much my experience too. The ideal scenario is where he's not a total pussy, but not a completely selfish dick. As you point out, girls naturally date the total dicks and bitch about it. I suppose it's because the dick quality is initially attractive because they're hoping they can rein it in, but when they can't, that's when it all goes tits up. Women like changing men, this is why they never go for a "good guy" but for a cunt with "good guy" potential. Usually he turns out to just be a cunt, hence the heartbreak.

Perhaps women should look for the good guy and then try and build the cuntishness within him? That may work better

[ryan]

girls are just dumb

/thread

[Hazzle]

Originally Posted by ryan

girls are just dumb

/thread

Heh. Truth.

[iximisspiggyixi]

Originally Posted by ryan

girls are just dumb

/thread

You just say that cause you're single and not getting laid right now.

But anyways, I agree...girls always go for the assholes. And what's worse is that they usually know they're assholes but they can't get away.

I just want like, to find a really balanced guy. Funny but not obnoxious. Confident but not arrogant. Smart but not nerdy.

Good luck to me!

[ryan]

Originally Posted by iximisspiggyixi

You just say that cause you're single and not getting laid right now.

But anyways, I agree...girls always go for the assholes. And what's worse is that they usually know they're assholes but they can't get away.

I just want like, to find a really balanced guy. Funny but not obnoxious. Confident but not arrogant. Smart but not nerdy.

Good luck to me!

No, I thought that when in relationships too. I could easily "get laid"...there are plenty of such females at frat/soror parties on campus...just not my thing.

I was nerdy and you liked me
HA

[iximisspiggyixi]

Originally Posted by ryan

No, I thought that when in relationships too. I could easily "get laid"...there are plenty of such females at frat/soror parties on campus...just not my thing.

I was nerdy and you liked me
HA

Good one *thumbs up*. You win.

Btw, I'm adding to my earlier answer - I don't like guys to be anything like Ryan.

[ryan]

Originally Posted by iximisspiggyixi

Good one *thumbs up*. You win.

Btw, I'm adding to my earlier answer - I don't like guys to be anything like Ryan.

someone's in a foul mood!
and your answer is obviously twisted by the fact that you're upset with me because i don't agree with you on something.

[iximisspiggyixi]

Originally Posted by ryan

someone's in a foul mood!
and your answer is obviously twisted by the fact that you're upset with me because i don't agree with you on something.

Lol, no, I'm not upset. And I was just kidding before, anyways. You're not a bad guy.

[Hazzle]

Originally Posted by iximisspiggyixi

You're not a bad guy.

She's GOT to be drunk...women'll fuck anything when drunk. How else do you think I get laid?

Ryan, be afraid, be very afraid.

[iximisspiggyixi]

Originally Posted by Hazzle

She's GOT to be drunk...women'll fuck anything when drunk. How else do you think I get laid?

Ryan, be afraid, be very afraid.

Not drunk. Yet.

[ryan]

Originally Posted by iximisspiggyixi

Lol, no, I'm not upset. And I was just kidding before, anyways. You're not a bad guy.

I'm fucking incredible.

[iximisspiggyixi]

Originally Posted by ryan

I'm fucking incredible.

Oh totally. God Ryan, please have me. I'm dying without you in my life.

[Mandy]

^^^zzzzzzzzZZZZZzzzz....

I really hate it when guys have really hairy faces but hardly any on their bodies.

[calereneau]

Or when they're hairy all over their body with a baby face.....

Actually....the babyface probably doesn't apply here. I'm sure immense proportions of body hair is just disgusting...

*Goes to shave backhair*

[Juliamariskamadadh]

Spoiled, egotistical, selfish jerks..tired of getting my heart broken..

[Mandy]

Awww don't be so tough on Ran. It's just that he's engaged.

[Juliamariskamadadh]

Um think he broke up with her a few weeks back..i wasn't talking about Ran. All the best Ran!
Note to Mandy:Ferme ta grande gueuille!!

[Hazzle]

Originally Posted by Juliamariskamadadh

Spoiled, egotistical, selfish jerks..tired of getting my heart broken..

Try being less of a doormat. Might help. Spoilt egotistical selfish fucks only take advantage of people who allow themselves to be taken advantage of. It's not their fault, it's yours.

[Juliamariskamadadh]

Fortunatly, ive had some nice guys in my life. So i know what to look for.