how long... in the sack?

[Hazzle]

Haz - Seriously, if you're left not satisfied and frustrated then you might as well write out instructions on how to do it. I like to call it: Getting Me Off for Dummies or the Untalented.

Heh, yeah, I know, I agree with you. There's no point just suffering in silence...well, actually, not in silence if you're faking it...

Katie: I can get a girl off with just my tongue and fingers. I think most guys can. Or should be able to anyway. Like you said, if lesbians around the world can do it each and every day, there's no bloody excuse for us not to learn. It does help having a lot of female friends who can talk to about sex. Every woman is different, so the more you talk to, the better idea you'll get as to the variety of ways women like being turned on. If she doesn't enjoy a certain technique, the more you know, the better chance you have of finding the right one.

And guys, don't watch pornos for tips...they don't know anything when it comes to skills. If you're REALLY having a hard time with oral I suggest doing what I call Alphabet Soup - use your tongue to lick out the letters of the alphabet against her clit. That is your only lesbian tip you will receive from me *mwah*.

Pornos are made for men, and the women usually fake anyway. I have heard some women say that about porn films before too OD. I've actually heard that tip before. I prefer spelling her name out, but really it's anything to change direction, because usually guys lick like they lick ice cream and it's not quite the same! The other tip I got was not just to use the flat of your tongue, but to change it up. The tongue is a very flexible thing, the more variety, the better the reaction you'll get.

I've found ice on the clit, then licking the melted ice water off is quite effective too...

[ryan]

ice numbs, especially on something as senisitive as a penis or clitoris.

[iximisspiggyixi]

Originally Posted by ryan

ice numbs, especially on something as senisitive as a penis or clitoris.

Ice feels GREAT, I think.

[Hazzle]

Originally Posted by ryan

ice numbs, especially on something as senisitive as a penis or clitoris.

Quite. That's the point.

[ryan]

Originally Posted by iximisspiggyixi

Ice feels GREAT, I think.

only because its intense at first
keep it there a while and it'll either hurt or you wont feel a thing.

[iximisspiggyixi]

Originally Posted by ryan

only because its intense at first
keep it there a while and it'll either hurt or you wont feel a thing.

Doesn't really hurt on my clit. But it def. does when it's inside me, but it's like, a kind of weird good hurt.

Btw, for someone with a penis, you sure seem to know alot about what goes on inside of a vagina. It's a little strange.

[Hazzle]

Originally Posted by ryan

only because its intense at first
keep it there a while and it'll either hurt or you wont feel a thing.

Who said keep it there for a while? I alternated with it and my tongue. That's what I was recommending, but trying to be as lacking in graphic detail as possible. Y'know, just to spare you all mental images!

All I know is I've been with a girl who LOVED it. At the end of the day, I took that to mean it felt good, but if it hurt, maybe she liked it? Who knows? If she gets off on it, she gets off on it, why it works isn't my concern. I don't have a vagina so I have no idea what it feels like to have ice on my clit from firsthand experience, do you? I tend to trust a woman's view on this more than a guy's...

[ryan]

Originally Posted by iximisspiggyixi

Doesn't really hurt on my clit. But it def. does when it's inside me, but it's like, a kind of weird good hurt.

Btw, for someone with a penis, you sure seem to know alot about what goes on inside of a vagina. It's a little strange.

i like vagina.

[hasselbrad]

Originally Posted by Katielondon

they should take a leaf out of our book, oral and fingers is more than enough to get us off, more than once, why guys dont try it?

Hey now. Don't lump us all together like that. Oral and manual stimulation are very near and dear to my heart. And, guys who can't get a woman off through penetration, clearly don't know what they are doing. Sadly, as a woman in my screenwriting class said, most men just "score and snore". Straight in and out doesn't really do the trick. "Latin hips" and varying the angle of penetration are key to a G-Spot orgasm, which, is the Royal Flush to the clitoris' Full House.

[Digital_Ice]

Originally Posted by iximisspiggyixi

Ice feels GREAT, I think.

when i skim read that, i got quite confused...

[Hazzle]

Originally Posted by Digital_Ice

when i skim read that, i got quite confused...

Heh. You filthy dawg, been fucking young members off KKW again? Well, I suppose I should be glad it was a girl this time...

[once_dreaded]

Ohhh Digital Ice, that made me laugh almost as much as Ran in the shoutbox. OMG I'm going to die from laughing so hard. Badger bisquits *cracks up* Oooohhhhh shit, my lessies are going to LOVE that one!

[acliff]

And here I was thinking Haz and women's naughty bits were mutually exclusive, for the good of the human race...

[Hazzle]

Originally Posted by acliff

And here I was thinking Haz and women's naughty bits were mutually exclusive, for the good of the human race...

That law was repealed in 2005.