Missing...

29-11-2004, 11:58 PM

I'm currently missing someone I love very very much, and I miss her a LOT. I miss her so much it hurts, because when we're together, it's fantastic but when we have to part it really does physically pain me. I long to be with her again, and even to hear her voice on the phone for a second or two is well worth it to me in that state as I just need to feel closer to her when we're apart.

I'm sure I can't be the only one who misses someone terribly, and I'm sure many of you have been through this in the past, so I'm just wondering if any of you have some advice or tips on how to deal with missing someone. Any help would be muchly appreciated.

meegaan1 · 30-11-2004, 01:35 AM

I've felt that way (though some may think it impossible for a young'n like me to feel like that). What I found helps is just planning things to tell them when they get back, or e-mail, message, or do anything you can to still keep talking to them even though they may not talk back.

ryan · 30-11-2004, 03:19 AM

time will go on and heal all wounds.

barrington · 30-11-2004, 06:37 AM

most of them.

hasselbrad · 30-11-2004, 12:45 PM

A wonderful person from this site gave me the idea of writing letters to my daughter, who I see every other weekend. A letter is something that can be cherished by both of you.

Flightfreak · 30-11-2004, 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Donnie Dorko

I'm currently missing someone I love very very much, and I miss her a LOT. I miss her so much it hurts, because when we're together, it's fantastic but when we have to part it really does physically pain me. I long to be with her again, and even to hear her voice on the phone for a second or two is well worth it to me in that state as I just need to feel closer to her when we're apart.

I'm sure I can't be the only one who misses someone terribly, and I'm sure many of you have been through this in the past, so I'm just wondering if any of you have some advice or tips on how to deal with missing someone. Any help would be muchly appreciated.

hm, I know that feeling from somewhere,
i even have that feeling for the moment. :icon_err:

Leonie · 30-11-2004, 04:39 PM

Do I miss people? Er... how about YES?

Guess nobody saw that coming

What do I do about it? I try and stay in contact as much and as often as possible, and enjoy the time I do get to spend with them, and try to spend that time in the best way possible. What else can you do...

Ashley · 30-11-2004, 11:40 PM

I agree whole heartedly Leonie. You just have to get through it... When the person leaves, I try and keep busy to take my mind off missing them. You can't just roll over and hide because they're gone.

JackYang · 21-12-2004, 05:39 PM

Go outside and do something you love with your friends. You'll get over it :icon_wink

Pygmalion · 21-12-2004, 10:57 PM

I'm missing someone at the moment, I haven't been with her for nearly a month and haven't talked to her for nearly a week. (feels like longer) I get to see her in 7 days but that seems like anOTHER month lol.
What you should do is distract yourself with alcohol-but not too much or you just end up sobbing to someone about how much you miss the person.

29-11-2004, 11:58 PM	#1
Donnie Dorko Guest Posts: n/a	Missing... I'm currently missing someone I love very very much, and I miss her a LOT. I miss her so much it hurts, because when we're together, it's fantastic but when we have to part it really does physically pain me. I long to be with her again, and even to hear her voice on the phone for a second or two is well worth it to me in that state as I just need to feel closer to her when we're apart. I'm sure I can't be the only one who misses someone terribly, and I'm sure many of you have been through this in the past, so I'm just wondering if any of you have some advice or tips on how to deal with missing someone. Any help would be muchly appreciated.

30-11-2004, 01:35 AM	#2
meegaan1 Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Nevada, USA Posts: 153	I've felt that way (though some may think it impossible for a young'n like me to feel like that). What I found helps is just planning things to tell them when they get back, or e-mail, message, or do anything you can to still keep talking to them even though they may not talk back. __________________ "I feel less blond now and, er, smarter!'--Keira Knightley ~77th Member of the Keira Knightley Posse!~ Wow... life hates me too... I bet it's a poser.--Chelle

30-11-2004, 12:45 PM	#5
hasselbrad Senior Citizen Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Sugar Hill, GA... finally! Civilization! Posts: 4,590	A wonderful person from this site gave me the idea of writing letters to my daughter, who I see every other weekend. A letter is something that can be cherished by both of you. __________________ "Purgatory's kind of like the in-betweeny one. You weren't really shit, but you weren't all that great either. Like Tottenham." I'll try being nicer...if you'll try being smarter.

30-11-2004, 04:39 PM	#7
Leonie Elle Join Date: May 2003 Location: Nottingham Posts: 2,631	Do I miss people? Er... how about YES? Guess nobody saw that coming What do I do about it? I try and stay in contact as much and as often as possible, and enjoy the time I do get to spend with them, and try to spend that time in the best way possible. What else can you do... __________________

30-11-2004, 11:40 PM	#8
Ashley Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Kansas Posts: 594	I agree whole heartedly Leonie. You just have to get through it... When the person leaves, I try and keep busy to take my mind off missing them. You can't just roll over and hide because they're gone. __________________

30-11-2004, 03:19 AM	#3
ryan Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Cincinnati Posts: 901	time will go on and heal all wounds.

30-11-2004, 06:37 AM	#4
barrington Kite-Eating Tree Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Copenhagen Posts: 1,121	most of them.

21-12-2004, 05:39 PM	#9
JackYang Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: British Columbia, Canada Posts: 428	Go outside and do something you love with your friends. You'll get over it :icon_wink __________________ Jack, Blogger of Jamie Spears Insider

21-12-2004, 10:57 PM	#10
Pygmalion Pissed Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Australia Posts: 856	I'm missing someone at the moment, I haven't been with her for nearly a month and haven't talked to her for nearly a week. (feels like longer) I get to see her in 7 days but that seems like anOTHER month lol. What you should do is distract yourself with alcohol-but not too much or you just end up sobbing to someone about how much you miss the person. __________________ Mythpathe

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