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Join Date: Jul 2004
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any tips?
aight i have slept a few girls, normal i guess. but i have never had sex with a virgin. and well my current gf is and well it just might happen next time i see her.
but i've heard it is really bad sex with a virgin and that it is so much harder. this i have imagined. so are there any tips to make it easier especially for her and possibly more enjoyable for me (if it is as bad as i've heard). just some input from those who've been there. ________ CUMSHOT VIDS |
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Sugar Hill, GA... finally! Civilization!
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Go slow...don't just plunge right in. Make sure everyone's lubed up good.
Just because you can't thrust like a jackrabbit doesn't mean the sex is bad. Punch whoever told you that.
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Join Date: Sep 2002
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Go really slowly, then half that speed again, then a quarter of that until you wonder whether you're actually really having sex at all. Try not to let glaciers overtake you.
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but i've just heard from some girls that their first time was really unenjoyable. well i don't want that to be the case with this girl. so yeah i'm getting it like this, pretty much rock it very slowly, word. ________ VAPEZILLA FOR SALE |
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Join Date: Jun 2003
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You go and make that girl unhappy and regretful for the rest of her life!
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Will Flash for Cash
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: NYC
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Just go slow, be gentle, etc. Talk her through it if she's really nervous and make sure she's comfortable.
Give her an orgasm or 2 through foreplay first...that way if the sex is bad, at least she'll have gotten something out of the experience.
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Join Date: Jun 2004
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you shouldn't be all like "oh, wow, you're a virgin. this is going to fucking suck"
you shouldn't do it at all unless you both really want to. and for the love of god, don't go pounding away..go as slow as possible. she'll hurt from it regardless; don't make it any worse than it already has to be. |
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Yellow at Heart
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Houston
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I don't know how sincere I can really be in this post, but here it goes.
Be glad that you are in a position to have sex, and that this girl wants you to. If she does indeed want you to, her expectations can't be anything that you can't do. About foreplay, the stuff the guy does in "Unfaithful" seemed to work very, very well. That might help just a little.
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Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Boston/Minneapolis
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let her slap you around some first? er right. ah good luck kiddo
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we talked about it last time i was home. SHE brought it up, we were just laying in my bed and talking and she said "i'd love to give you what you want but i'm just not ready."
i couldn't figure out why she said that because i didn't do anything to make her think that, but.... ....i assured her that it was perfectly fine that when she was ready that's when it would happen and that i would never make her do something she didn't want to do. in 2 weeks i get to see her again and she has been hinting about it, so i don't know what exactly will happen but its a possibiity. ________ Wendie 99 |
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Join Date: Jun 2004
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My advice would just be to make sure she knows you respect her. |
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