what type of guy is a good guy

[kilyncw]

do most girls like the sweet, tell me i'm beautiful all the time and send me flowers just because he wants to, guy

or the i know he loves me but just doesn't show it kinda guy.

do girls even like poetry?
is it true that nice guys finish last? (does this mean i have to kiss her with my fist)

girls are confusing. haha.

it is just my curiosity.
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Lovely Wendie

[Mandy]

Welcome to KKW, sir.

I think all of those are good qualities for a guy. Guys that do nice things for no reason.

I never date guys that:

1. Don't have a car
2. Live with their parents
3. Say "no" to partying (What's with that)
4. Hate their parents
5. Don't have a job

If you're not in any of those numbers, you're game

[kilyncw]

that's good to know, but i'm glad not all girls have your same dating rules.

i don't have a car at the moment because i thrashed it about 2 months ago, i am however in the process of getting a new one, haha.

and also when i am done with my current situation i will be living with my mother and stepdad while i go to school.

its cool though cause my gf has no problem with that as long as she can see me.

i just like getting different opinions from different girls.
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Zx14 Vs Hayabusa

[DefyingGravity]

I'm gonna make a list of what I want in a guy.


Physicality:

1. Older
2. Taller(than me, at least)
3. Strong jaw
4. Big hands
5. Cute ears

Misc:

1. Single
2. Outgoing
3. Talented
4. Can play an instrument(preferably guitar)
5. Believes in something/knows where he's going

[Vertical Vortex]

Originally Posted by DefyingGravity

I'm gonna make a list of what I want in a guy.


Physicality:

1. Older
2. Taller(than me, at least)
3. Strong jaw
4. Big hands
5. Cute ears

Misc:

1. Single
2. Outgoing
3. Talented
4. Can play an instrument(preferably guitar)
5. Believes in something/knows where he's going

HAH! thats 70% me!
wanna date?

edit: more like 80/85%!

[Hazzle]

Ahhh...transatlantic love...

[Richard]

Originally Posted by Mandy

Welcome to KKW, sir.

I think all of those are good qualities for a guy. Guys that do nice things for no reason.

I never date guys that:

1. Don't have a car
2. Live with their parents
3. Say "no" to partying (What's with that)
4. Hate their parents
5. Don't have a job

If you're not in any of those numbers, you're game

Jesus... I'm all those numbers, minus hating the parents. :icon_redf You have to cut guys some slack.

If every girl had your rules, guys would have a shit-fit.

I'm not even suppose to be in here. Carry on.

[acliff]

Originally Posted by Mandy

Welcome to KKW, sir.

I think all of those are good qualities for a guy. Guys that do nice things for no reason.

I never date guys that:

1. Don't have a car
2. Live with their parents
3. Say "no" to partying (What's with that)
4. Hate their parents
5. Don't have a job

If you're not in any of those numbers, you're game

Oh dear, thats leaves me out. 1, 2, how I curse you.... :err:

[Mandy]

Originally Posted by acliff

Oh dear, thats leaves me out. 1, 2, how I curse you.... :err:

Of course the fact that you're British cancels everything out

[ryan]

In most cases, sweet guys don't get jack. Why, you ask?

They're boring, predictable, and not fun.

What fun is it for the girl when she already knows that she has a guy wrapped around her finger. She knows his responses to every question or situation. He's not mysterious, secure, or sexually and socially confident.

You've got to remain a little distant in order to cause some interest in her. Be a challenge, not a push over. Don't be predictable or clingy. Being at her every beck and call is only going to hurt your chances.

[acliff]

Originally Posted by ryan

In most cases, sweet guys don't get jack. Why, you ask?

They're boring, predictable, and not fun.

What fun is it for the girl when she already knows that she has a guy wrapped around her finger. She knows his responses to every question or situation. He's not mysterious, secure, or sexually and socially confident.

You've got to remain a little distant in order to cause some interest in her. Be a challenge, not a push over. Don't be predictable or clingy. Being at her every beck and call is only going to hurt your chances.

Rich words, coming from you
:fencing:

You can be sweet, while being unpredictable, funny, and fun to hang out with. I'm sure someone with these traits exists somewhere....

[Kelsey]

Originally Posted by Mandy

I never date guys that:

1. Don't have a car
2. Live with their parents
3. Say "no" to partying (What's with that)
4. Hate their parents
5. Don't have a job

I'm confusing. I like random acts of kindness, but don't hang all over me and reassure me every five minutes that you love me. I just want to know. A car is a bonus for me, because I have one. He should just have his liscence at least. Living with his parents could go either way. If I have my own place at the time, then I consider that problem fixed. At least one of us need to live alone. I don't care if he says no to partying as long as he's not a total hermit. I don't care if he hates his parents either, but if he loves them, don't ridicule me for hating my mom. A job is very important. He better be a Brad Pitt if he doesn't have a job, but wants me to go out with him. Also, I wouldn't even consider someone who didn't graduate college or isn't planning on graduating college. I can't even tell you. That's so unnattractive to me.

[barrington]

I adore the delicious hypocracy of it all.

1. Woman don't want a guy who's all mushy, tells them he loves her every second of the day, does kind things regularly, hangs around and does stuff for them. They want to be independent young ladies.
They don't want to be waited on hand and foot.

2. Women do want a guy who has a car to drive them places, a house to put them up for free and look after them in and money to take them out and buy them things.
They DO want to be waited on hand and foot.


Women are designed to be irrational and make no sense. That's just the way it is.

[Hazzle]

Originally Posted by barrington

Women are designed to be irrational and make no sense. That's just the way it is.

Truth.

[Liam]

Fucking truth.

[Kelsey]

I definitely don't want to be waited on. I don't feel I need to be with anyone and, call it shallow, if I had to choose between a successful career that required hard work and most of my time, or a good relationship, I would choose the career. I've always been a pretty independant person and I don't need to be waited on hand and foot. To me, that shows weakness.

[barrington]

I would postulate that one needs to show some degree of weakness and dependence to endure a successful relationship. If you do not lower some defences and become a little interdependent with a potential partner, you will be merely relegated to the status of Cast Iron Bitch, ensuring that no man will ever touch you.

There's loads of hard-nosed career women that are just like this. They have high-powered, well-paid jobs in the city. But they will all retire sad and lonely.

[MarkOB]

Originally Posted by Kelsey

I definitely don't want to be waited on. I don't feel I need to be with anyone and, call it shallow, if I had to choose between a successful career that required hard work and most of my time, or a good relationship, I would choose the career. I've always been a pretty independant person and I don't need to be waited on hand and foot. To me, that shows weakness.

Do you mean that it shows weakness in yourself or weakness in the guy?

Originally Posted by acliff

Obviously at the age of 14, you have yet to experience what would happen if you told a girl she tastes like cheese.

Now that is a good point! Why the heck didn't I recognise that?!

OH, how stupid I am!!

[Mandy]

Originally Posted by barrington

I adore the delicious hypocracy of it all.

1. Woman don't want a guy who's all mushy, tells them he loves her every second of the day, does kind things regularly, hangs around and does stuff for them. They want to be independent young ladies.
They don't want to be waited on hand and foot.

2. Women do want a guy who has a car to drive them places, a house to put them up for free and look after them in and money to take them out and buy them things.
They DO want to be waited on hand and foot.


Women are designed to be irrational and make no sense. That's just the way it is.

It keeps us mysterious that way.

Except I don't wanna be waited on hand and foot. I'll pay the tab at dinner every once in a while and volunteer to drive.

In no way should a relationship contain one person giving and giving and the other just receiving.

A married couple I know are having problems because they are in financial struggle. The wife complains that her husband needs a better job because there isn't enough money to support them which is why they and their 3 yr old daughter are moving into an apartment. She doesn't have a job. The biggest hypocrisy I've ever known.

A relationship that works is 50-50.

[Dr.No]

Its actually not called arrogance i'd call it being confident, your not gonna get anything done if your not confident in yourself there buddy