OK, I've looked and I still don't understand.

[dave]

I suspect that it is just me, but I'm confused.

I click on a link in something called something like "Relationships & Sexuality" and I read some stuff by some guys asking questions I enjoy enough to take the time to answer. I've seen some statements in some of the messages talking about that particular thread being in a "woman's only" part of the forum, but I didn't get there that way.

To me, I think, the "Relationships & Sexuality" thread was separate from the "Keira Girls" thread. I'd never/"probably not ever" post in a girls only forum. Because "Men are from Mars" I often find that I'm not too interested in "Women Only" conversations. Imagine "Women's Night" and how boring that would be for some ugly old guy.

So, now I see that the "Relationships & Sexuality" thread is back inside the "Keira Girls" thread. Does it move in and out depending on where I am looking at the index from? The reason I am asking that is because several of these threads seem to migrate. "Step Right Up; Buy Your Ticket; See the Incredible Disappearing Thread".

There appears to be two different ways into a thread; one of which gets you criticized if you are male... (nothing new about that, however...)

[dave]

Originally Posted by dave

To me, I think, the "Relationships & Sexuality" thread was separate from the "Keira Girls" thread.
So, now I see that the "Relationships & Sexuality" thread is back inside the "Keira Girls" thread.
There appears to be two different ways into a thread; one of which gets you criticized if you are male...

So, the interesting "Who Do You Love? besides Kiera?" Gives this old man a little jolt. Having been single, and old and ugly for about twenty years I have a really great fantasy life. I especially enjoy Kari Wuhrer (We send her questions and she sends us the answers, sometimes a tape of the answers, she is approachable), Firefly, Farscape, Star Trek (and almost all of its derivatives), just about everything Spielberg ever did.

In any case it sure looks like that "Celebs you love (Besides Keira)" is a part of the "Relationships & Sexuality" subforum. Now, this is probably because I have my web browser set up weird, (I always do things "My Way"); but it might just be that I didn't pay enough attention to the fact that everything says that it is part of the "girls forum" and there really is no permission for a male to write in "Relationships & Sexuality"...

[Mandy]

Oh no you didn't just quote yourself and double post. *snaps her fingers* uh-uh girlfriend.

[dave]

Originally Posted by Mandy

Oh no you didn't just quote yourself and double post. *snaps her fingers* uh-uh girlfriend.

Actually, I did. There was no way to put the two images on the same message and have two different subjects in the same message.

My original intention was to put them in the same message, and I did; but then it made no sense. The point was that

1st) "Relationships & Sexuality" appeared to be separate from "Keira Girls", and show a screen snap that proves that.

2nd) "Celebs you love (Besides Keira)" was a subject under "Relationships & Sexuality" and show a screen snap that looks like it proves that. I say looks like because If I read it closely I can see that everything is tagged "Keira Girls" and I should be smart enough to read every little thing before doing anything. (Of course I don't do things that way; I'm a male. I rarely read instructions, [except for cook books] and I rarely ask for directions [because for the last five years I've driven an 18-wheeler, and I have onboard some of the best laptop mapping software AND the Rand McNally Truckers Edition Atlas] ).

I'm trying to understand something, and if your rules make it so I can't explain what it is that I don't understand; there has to be a way around the lemma. The point here is not to "not break the rules"; (I was a Technical Writer for about six years and I break the writing rules all the time.) The point was that I don't understand how something can be both "Keira Girls only" and not. If "Girls" are the only people who have "Relationships & Sexuality" then I can understand that you wouldn't want men posting in there. I assume you had this discussion long ago and decided to bring "Relationships & Sexuality" (RelSex?) out into the Wavefront Community Sub-forum, and my real problem is that I wanted to claim some fantasies as "Celebs you love (Besides Keira)" without adding a parallel thread in some non-existent "Keira's Men" sub-forum. Oh well, 'twas a trivial thing... Here am I going to start a duplicate of any of the interesting threads in the "Keira Girls" sub-forum... :fencing:

[DragonRat]

As a Sub-Forum, it's the exception to the rule. It exists both in and out of the Keira Girls Forum. Originally, it was started in the Girls Forum, since girls wanted to talk about... well, girl stuff. But, when it comes to giving and asking for advice, both sexes must (and should) equally partake. Thus, whatever dilemma you had going for you, don't fret. Have a cookie.

Besides, if the admins or mods see fit to move threads, they'll do it. Just PM them.

[Leonie]

Keira Girls, quite simply, is for the girls only.

Relationships & Sexuality is for all forum members. It started out as a subforum to Keira Girls because that's what most the Girls forum was about anyway. The guys decided that they wanted to discuss along on those topics, and so the subforum was born.

Hope that clears it up a bit