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Originally Posted by eelliiinn
All I can say is you gotta decide if you're gonna go with your feelings or be smart, cause, unfortunately, it seems like you can't be both...
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That is in fact excellent advice...I really hadn't seen it that way. I kind of divide things into "logical and rational" and "driven by brain chemicals" :P
But this is a good way to see it...I'll have to do some more pondering. Thankyou
Good luck on your older-guy issue (although from my point of view older is better. Most guys my age are immature, selfish, silly mediocre things or just plain gross).
I do understand how it can be an issue, I felt totally uncomfortable dating (and avoided it) 23 year-olds when I was 16 or 17, even if we were a great match intelectually and maturity-wise.