Who said I was being self-deprecating? Other than what I said to Andy nothing I said was. The truth is, like I said, I get rejected just as much as other guys, maybe more, maybe less, I really don't compare myself to other people. All I know is when it happens, it's normally a case of the girl saying "I'm flattered but..."
I'm not crap in many ways. This is just one department in which I'm honest enough to admit my failings and humble enough to keep my successes to myself.