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Originally Posted by Guy Who Likes Stuff
anyway, i finished in like 2-3 minutes. we were able to do it a few more times, but the same result. i haven't had that much sex in my life to begin with, so i don't know HOW abnormal this is. i'm assuming it's not good, i just don't know HOW not good. in the past, i've used a condom, but she was cool w/ going au-naturale (skip the lecture as to why i shouldn't have done this, and yes i realize wearing one would numb the sensation a bit, but condoms just don't work for me... TOO insensitive, the exact opposite of what i'm talking about here)
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Aww. It's alright, bro. Maybe sex just isn't for you. Don't fret, there's a lot of other activities your partner and yourself can participate in together. Things like sewing, golf, and crying. (There, there's my joke, I hope it's sufficient.)
But in more seriousness, I'm fearing the same thing (I am experienceless, so don't take my advice on the topic if I give any) and I've thought about it a lot. I think controlling an orgasm is a feasable task, but I don't know how it will fare with a girl-partner-vagina-thing. For example if you feel an orgasm approaching, if you slow down your pace to control it (which I think would differ it for a while) will the girl lose whatever stimulation she's feeling? Any type of answer ladies?
As for the tip holding thing, that may work. Not while masturbating though. I don't think masturbation would work as an endurance builder...because when you're being aroused and touched by a woman it's different than being aroused by, well, your own hand. Not sure, again, no experience.
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Originally Posted by Hazzle
(my first time took AGGGGESSS. To the point where we both got frustrated by how long it was taking  ) |
What took ages? Convincing her to have sex with you?
