You need to stop being around girly men and start being around real men. Some facts about real men:
1). Real men say what they mean.
2). Real men do what they say.
3). Real men don't let emotions control a tense situation.
4). Real men don't lose their cool under pressure.
5). Real men handle their business. They don't complain. They don't whine. And they don't cry. They do what needs to be done, be that taking care of a family, going to school, working two jobs, whatever.
6). And finally, real men don't rely on spouts of anger and yelling to handle their women. Real men command respect and know how to communicate.
If your man isn't in compliance to these things, he can only be 1 of 2 things.
1). He's still a boy.
2). He's a girly man. If you want to be with a girly man, that's your choice, and you should live with the consequences.
I against I,
flesh of my flesh,
and mind of my mind,
two of a kind but one won't survive,
my images reflect in the enemies eye,
and his images reflect in mine the same time,