Why do men always say one thing and then turn around and do something completely opposite?
My friend Jon, for example, told me that he was practically in love with me and will always be there for me. About 3 days later, he stops calling, texting, and IMing me for no reason whatsoever. I am POSITIVE that I did not do anything to provoke this. I've talked to him about it, and he said that he wouldn't do it again. But did he? Of course.
And my boyfriend, he constantly tells me that he would NEVER do anything to hurt me. And yet he compares me to other girls (girls he used to like, I might add), makes me feel stupid, and then yells and swears at me when I retaliate.
I could name at least 3 other men in my life that have done similar things to me.
I just don't fucking get it.
I realize that this is the "girl's" part of the forum, but men, PLEASE attempt to explain to me why you act like this.