Yeah, I think you're right, this is a website forum thing and lots of people post on here and lots of others just read it, but I don't want to step on anyone's toes so it's ok. Thanks for sticking up for us little people though
I think that the thread was intended to be a general discussion of a commitment issue or fear, and how to deal with it, how to stop hurting people to avoid being hurt, rather than the specifics of one private, personal situation. I'm sure it's not a situation peculiar to these individuals, and I hope your comments, Acliff, inspire others to post their views and experiences to help further a more general discussion of the problem. It's an interesting discussion to have I think.