Hmm.. I must admit that I don't know anything about guys in the States, but in Denmark its kinda hot for guys to be like 'I don't give a shit about foreplay. I want some action!". To be honest I find it stupid (unless of course the girl feel the same way). If you have foreplay, the pleasure lasts longer course you kinda shift
and if you have had a foreplay people are much more in the mood of having sex, and therefor the pleasure is that bigger. They are more up to it. Then it's not just a hole (now talking from a guy's point of view).
I myself love the foreplay. Just lying next to your love, and carressing her softly (must admit, haven't gone any further
). That's SO great.