Switch the tables. And you know what? You'll be doing all the telling and commanding. It's not telling her what to do directly. It's about finesse. You're going to tell her what to do, and she won't even suspect what's going on.
Ok now you just sound like you're telling us how to manipulate people... creepy hypnotist.
You say, somethings wrong
This Kind of life style doesn't work
I'm trying something else
For a change, for a change
Thats ok, ok, ok