From a girl's point of view I can tell you, NearokA,that a lot of the things you just said are really not true. A guy doesn't have to be "stylin" to get a girl to want him. And about the whole advocate thing; sometimes it takes someone else to open uo your eyes to how good a person might be for you. I'd like to know if you have ever actually tested any of your "theories" and had them actually work. Love/lust/ whatever form of a relationship it is isn't like math with all these set formulas.
You say, somethings wrong
This Kind of life style doesn't work
I'm trying something else
For a change, for a change
Thats ok, ok, ok