I've got a friend whos mom is a bit like that, not quite to that extreme, but its getting there.
Anyway, if you let your mom rule your life, you are fucked, go to her for advice, but don't choose your MOM over your girlfriend, how does that make your gf feel? Worthless, so in other words, live your own life, its too short not to.
I sound like a twat, don't I? :icon_frow