One way to guarantee you'll never find love is to go looking for it; took me the best part of 22 years and we didn't even particularly like each other at first.
There's nothing wrong with thinking you're in love when you're not - it only serves to make the real deal all the more powerful by contrast.
I can't believe I just gave out some reassuring relationship advice. Maybe this is me getting in touch with my feminine side. I'll have to fix that.