I've had a thing with the same guy going off and on for about 8 years. I'm 19, by the way, so that's since like 6th grade. But, I love him, and I truly think I'll end up with him. I'm glad we've broken things off for various times throughout the years, because it's given me a chance to experience relationships and sex with other people. It's these experiences that have taught me that this certain guy is the one I'm meant to be with, and that sex really does mean alot more when love is involved...but hey, sex is never really a bad thing either way, lol.
You can't live in the past, because you've got to live for the future.