Originally Posted by Hazzle
Aye...can sympathise with that entirely...except I'm never one to say "Don't use me as a shoulder to cry on" because I'm a sap
As for the whole "first love" thing I tend to think girls are less inclined to use the "L" word than guys are...so I'm not sure that's true...it's just a case of them being willing to be treated badly...
I'll leave you with one of my favourites lines from Friends:
"'You're such a nice guy' means 'I'm going to be dating leather-wearing alcoholics and complaining about them to you.'"~Chandler~
no no hazzle you misread i think, it isn't first love, it was if a girl wants to call a "kiss with the fist" love, then so be it. meaning if they want a dude that treats them like shit and hit them but want to say they love him then i can't do much. and like you i can't say don't use me as a crying shoulder, i always give in, but i really hate it, haha.