Originally Posted by ryan
In most cases, sweet guys don't get jack. Why, you ask?
They're boring, predictable, and not fun.
What fun is it for the girl when she already knows that she has a guy wrapped around her finger. She knows his responses to every question or situation. He's not mysterious, secure, or sexually and socially confident.
You've got to remain a little distant in order to cause some interest in her. Be a challenge, not a push over. Don't be predictable or clingy. Being at her every beck and call is only going to hurt your chances.
Rich words, coming from you
You can be sweet, while being unpredictable, funny, and fun to hang out with. I'm sure someone with these traits exists somewhere....