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Kyle_West
14-07-2004, 02:58 AM
In the sack.....I am a virgin so saying that I will say 10 seconds. How about you?


no one is worse than me so dont be shy.

What is the normal "lasting time" to begin with. Even when you were a virgin give an estimate how long they last...assuming many of you aren't virgins since there is an entirely different sub-forum for this sort of stuff.

In case someone still doesn't know...Its how long until you pop

spitinthacoola
14-07-2004, 03:01 AM
I am as well a virgin so I'd have to say 5-20 seconds. Not that it matter I'll probably never get in the sack with someone else anyway.

Narg
14-07-2004, 07:43 AM
Virgin, no idea.

Pygmalion
14-07-2004, 09:30 AM
What exactly d'you mean by "lasting time?"

Glare
14-07-2004, 09:34 AM
Think it means how long until you come.

BJ - 1-2 minutes
P in the V - 3-6 minutes
P in the B - 4-6 minutes

I have mastered the art of holding on.

Pygmalion
14-07-2004, 09:47 AM
Lol wheras I've mastered the art of "faking it"

DragonRat
14-07-2004, 10:14 AM
Perhaps he means the time of first penetration (and thus, stimulation) to the immediate moment of orgasm.

Sarah
14-07-2004, 11:00 AM
Goodness me!

barrington
14-07-2004, 11:11 AM
You people really, really sicken me.

On the topic - bout 40 minutes or so now that I'm not a hormonally-twisted sixteen year old.

Hazzle
14-07-2004, 01:52 PM
You people really, really sicken me.

Which says a lot considering I don't sicken him one bit :p He has a high tolerance for the sickness :D

On topic...wouldn't know... :o

Mandy
14-07-2004, 03:37 PM
This is obviously a "guy" thread since I don't think I've ever come before the other person. That, or all the guys around here really suck. :p

gracie
14-07-2004, 04:43 PM
its hard to compare i mean with guys its better to last, with girls if u can even come during sex at all its good.

hasselbrad
14-07-2004, 05:18 PM
Worrying about how long you will last will, more than likely, cause you to hear one of two things.

1. “What?!? You’re done already?”
2. “No, really, it’s okay…it happens to a lot of guys.”

Honestly, longevity is overrated. Two minutes of hitting the right spot :o can be infinitely more pleasurable than forty-five minutes of furious thrusting. :eek: It’s not a myth. It’s your job to find it.
If you’ve got a hot date, however, and you are really concerned, take care of business yourself. Just make sure you do it in the morning. It will help you relax, and it will help preventing hearing #2.

amishka
14-07-2004, 05:37 PM
lol..... :cool:

keira loves lipgloss
14-07-2004, 05:42 PM
kk ive had enough of all this virgin talk gross

barrington
14-07-2004, 06:27 PM
with girls if u can even come during sex at all its good.
Good job that the female orgasm is utterly superfluous to reproduction. :D

Kyle_West
14-07-2004, 06:55 PM
I am one of the only remaining virgins in this age group in the states. I'd say 85% of 16 year olds (at least where I live) have screwed.....This thread reallly isn't going well. I think two people gave an answer other than "who knows"

Jacoby
14-07-2004, 09:00 PM
I am one of the only remaining virgins in this age group in the states. I'd say 85% of 16 year olds (at least where I live) have screwed.....This thread reallly isn't going well. I think two people gave an answer other than "who knows"

Actually, you just think that 85% have lost their virginity. All my friends and I are still virgins....and some of my friends are pretty good looking and have girlfriends but choose not to have sex. I'd say 25% of 16 year olds have had sex. Some people just lie about it to be accepted.


BJ - 1-2 minutes
P in the V - 3-6 minutes
P in the B - 4-6 minutes
That's probably the funniest thing Ive ever read. "P in the V" "P in the B"...lol.

Mandy
14-07-2004, 10:59 PM
Honestly, longevity is overrated. Two minutes of hitting the right spot :o can be infinitely more pleasurable than forty-five minutes of furious thrusting. :eek: It’s not a myth. It’s your job to find it.


So...where are you from again? ;)

Hazzle
15-07-2004, 01:12 AM
So...where are you from again? ;)

Methinks Mandy will be buying a ticket to Tampa soon enough :)

And Baz...classic funny. Isn't the female orgasm simply a myth? It is according to all the female friends I have who bitch about their boyfriends :p Meh...it's simply unnecessary (I'm only kidding Gracie...please don't hurt me :o)

Kyle_West
15-07-2004, 02:01 AM
really, only 25%? Wow, well I will change my statement. But not to 25%

50% of guys
100% of girls

At least in my town a girl feels obligated to have sex. Lousy seniors doing sophomores...They go for the older guys.


so 75%

hasselbrad
15-07-2004, 02:10 PM
Kyle,
Sorry if my answer was vague, but it all really depends upon the situation. If she's really getting off, I may not last but a couple of minutes. The more turned on she gets, the more turned on I get, and it becomes absolutely impossible to control. If the sex is pedestrian, "oh all right...let's just get it over with" sex...it can go on for 45 minutes. Ah, sweet irony. ;)
My point was that what you do is far more important than for how long.

Mandy,
How you doin'? :rolleyes:

Seriously, I'm no sexual conquistador. I can barely get to my second hand counting the number of women I've been with. I've got a few "roadmaps" on how to get there, but women are like states. Each one's different, and the map for Alabama won't neccessarily help me navigate through Kansas.
Of course, sometimes it's fun to get lost...and you usually discover new, wonderful routes. :D

ryan
15-07-2004, 03:21 PM
if you want to last longer, have more sex. or if sex isn't an option, masturbate until near orgasm, stop ('til limp), and repeat a few times. keep doing that a few times a week and you'll more than likely begin to last longer.

also, wear a condom (or better yet one that sort of numbs you a little bit so you last a little longer). less stimulation = lasting longer.

gracie
15-07-2004, 03:32 PM
if you want to last longer, have more sex.
haha like you could. cant pin em down long enough.

ryan
15-07-2004, 03:34 PM
haha like you could. cant pin em down long enough.
you weren't complaining last night.

keira loves lipgloss
15-07-2004, 03:36 PM
Good job that the female orgasm is utterly superfluous to reproduction. :Dwhy are you glad your not a women? :p

hasselbrad
15-07-2004, 03:54 PM
...there is a similar technique you can try during actual intercourse. Thrust until you near climax, and then stop. Repeat. If you can do this, you will last until she throws you onto the floor. :D

gracie
15-07-2004, 03:58 PM
you weren't complaining last night.
are you confusing me with cliff again?

ryan
15-07-2004, 04:14 PM
...there is a similar technique you can try during actual intercourse. Thrust until you near climax, and then stop. Repeat. If you can do this, you will last until she throws you onto the floor. :D

yes.
if you're close to orgasming during sex, pull out and perform oral for a little bit. it'll keep you plenty aroused but keep you from exploding. when you're ready for another go, just go back in.

ryan
15-07-2004, 04:14 PM
are you confusing me with cliff again?
he wishes.

Hazzle
16-07-2004, 01:32 AM
You told me I was your one and only <cries>

Heh...poor Cliff gets dragged into this for no good reason...Gracie's mean...the least she could've done was drag my name into it...that's expected, as everyone else does it :D

Err...liked Hasselbrad's map and state analogy though...genius!

ryan
16-07-2004, 04:02 AM
haz
you just smell bad.

Mandy
16-07-2004, 07:46 AM
This entire thread makes me want to dial-up my booty call, BAD.

barrington
16-07-2004, 11:35 AM
Shag, pull-out, stop, wait, repeat...?

Have you actually TRIED this approach? Your other half will get very pissed off with all this stop-start bollocks. (literally. heh) Doesn't work. There's only one answer for it - more sex, more often.

apoggy
16-07-2004, 11:54 AM
Spoke like a true master :D

hasselbrad
16-07-2004, 12:19 PM
Yes. Several times. Hasn't always worked, but it has more times than not.
The break can allow for changes in position...and it doesn't mean the sex has to stop...it can be continued with different *ahem* methods. ;)

barrington
16-07-2004, 06:34 PM
Changing positions is cumbersome and ungainly unless well rehearsed beforehand.
Porn has a lot to answer for.

gracie
16-07-2004, 10:37 PM
^truth the only change that ever occurs here is a roll when im not going fast enough on top. which usually is not done smoothly.

hasselbrad
17-07-2004, 12:08 AM
Oh, don't worry. That technique was used and positions changed after complete withdrawl. Any position change whilst still engaged were merely for a different thrust vector.

Olek
20-07-2004, 07:18 PM
there's either something seriously wrong with me, either that or all you virgins have got the wrong idea....

It took me about a month with the girl i lost my V-Reg to before i could consistently orgasm at all through penitrative intercourse alone, not once was she ever able to bring me off with a blowjob or a handjob during our 10 month relationship (and before you say she was evidently shit, she's had many before me and many after). The one before that never managed to bring me off ever, 14 months of solo action only, not fun, however, she may have just been shit.

Another thing too, its not like its a bloody race, the objective is to enjoy yourself, not to spaff your load in the quickest time possible, or to hold on and deny yourself past the point of enjoyment for the sake bragging.

The other thing, the actual time always depends on my factors totally beyond my present understanding (i am but a young padawan).
So for the sake of completeness, i will list the shortest, longest, and my current of average (all rough estimates). All figures quoted as when doing these things only.

Handywork: 2min<- 5-10min -> "immune" (for want of a better word)

Blow job: only once has it ever worked by itself, that was when i was extremely horny for it, still took a good 5 minutes though, aside from that one time, i seem to be "immune"

Vaginal: i've totally misfired (spunked without orgasm) and splotched in about 30 seconds a couple of times, not sure why, i think it was stress <- 30-60min, a few 90min affairs -> "immune"

Anal: did it by itself once, for lack of a condom, it took about 10 minutes.



In response to barrington, I agree entirely, but thats all the more reason to practice, besides, 40 minutes is an awfully long time for a repetitive task.

MeggieHoops
20-07-2004, 09:01 PM
All I know is that I can't ever orgasm without something touching my clit. Maybe I have like...once or twice...but it's fairly necessary.

So to sum up:

Oral - I like this better than sex and am usually gone in about 10-15 minutes.
Vaginal Sex - Usually around 30 minutes, sometimes faster, sometimes slower...depends on the guy or position.
Anal Sex - 15 minutes-ish. As I said, I need serious clit stimulation...and if I have that, along with the anal sex, I can go pretty fast.

ryan
20-07-2004, 09:32 PM
All I know is that I can't ever orgasm without something touching my clit. Maybe I have like...once or twice...but it's fairly necessary.

So to sum up:

Oral - I like this better than sex and am usually gone in about 10-15 minutes.
Vaginal Sex - Usually around 30 minutes, sometimes faster, sometimes slower...depends on the guy or position.
Anal Sex - 15 minutes-ish. As I said, I need serious clit stimulation...and if I have that, along with the anal sex, I can go pretty fast.

perhaps your guys have trouble finding the g-spot. :eek:

MeggieHoops
20-07-2004, 09:36 PM
perhaps your guys have trouble finding the g-spot. :eek:

Haha I would say that yes, yes they've got serious issues with that. But...I know everyone is supposed to have one, but mine is way in there or something, because even I can't find it. (Ha...guess what I meant by that!)

gracie
20-07-2004, 09:38 PM
Haha I would say that yes, yes they've got serious issues with that. But...I know everyone is supposed to have one, but mine is way in there or something, because even I can't find it. (Ha...guess what I meant by that!)

oh thats a bummer...so when you say that do u mean you dont masturbate? or what as im in shock and dense

MeggieHoops
20-07-2004, 09:40 PM
No, lol, I meant that I do...I just have no luck with the g-spot issue. God I've only been talking around this board for a few days and already you lucky people know more about me than some of my best friends do!

hasselbrad
20-07-2004, 09:42 PM
Go to a home health care store and look for something called a bed wedge. Lay on your back and use the wedge to raise your pelvis and have your guy enter at a horizontal angle. This may or may not work, so you might want to try the angle game with a pillow before investing in the bed wedge.
Also, you might try putting something between your pelvises...a roll of toilet paper or a pair of socks rolled up has worked for me in the past. That external pressure, coupled with the angle variation inside might do the trick. My ex thought it was all about the clit until we tried this. :o

gracie
20-07-2004, 09:51 PM
nothing better than introducing some hardware to your sex life eh

apoggy
20-07-2004, 09:54 PM
better than it being software :p

MeggieHoops
20-07-2004, 10:03 PM
*Giggle* Apoggy, you're funny.

gracie
20-07-2004, 10:14 PM
better than it being software :p
it took me like...good 10 mintues to get that one. course thats all ryan has...

ryan
21-07-2004, 10:40 AM
Haha I would say that yes, yes they've got serious issues with that. But...I know everyone is supposed to have one, but mine is way in there or something, because even I can't find it. (Ha...guess what I meant by that!)

i'm here to help.
;)

barrington
21-07-2004, 12:36 PM
I agree with numerous above points.
There's no pride to be had in four hours of blue-balls bonking if all you get from it is a discernable numbness in the nuts and an intimate knowledge of how to divide your mother's maiden name by Pi.

hasselbrad
21-07-2004, 12:43 PM
Just trying to help.
Beyond the aforementioned techniques, the only other thing I could suggest is a vibrator with a 5hp Briggs & Stratton motor. It's loud and you'll probably smell like gasoline, but it's probably worth it. :o

MeggieHoops
21-07-2004, 01:38 PM
i'm here to help.
;)

Oooh baby.

ryan
21-07-2004, 03:36 PM
Oooh baby.

offer's always on the table :D

Hazzle
23-07-2004, 12:18 AM
Ryan...you're KKW's resident whore...your offers are always on the table...even to me...but I already told you once...NO!

ryan
23-07-2004, 12:56 AM
Ryan...you're KKW's resident whore...your offers are always on the table...even to me...but I already told you once...NO!
i am no such thing.
i've never made such an offer to anyone except her :p
you're just jealous that i dont want to help with the g-spot problem you've been having, haz. :p

Liam
23-07-2004, 11:07 AM
He's not a whore, hes the resident digipimp.

Its difficult to say how long you will last. It depends on your partner and what you are doing. If you are rooting like a pair of crazed stoats you will be lucky to last 10 minutes but if you are making sweet, sweet love then its not difficult to go for 30 minutes or more.

I swear, KKW is going downhill fast. :)

Hazzle
23-07-2004, 11:35 AM
I swear, KKW is going downhill fast. :)

With you there...this thread disturbs me :p And I'm hard to disturb...I have to stare at my ugly mug in the mirror in the morning when I'm shaving :D

tita*
05-08-2004, 10:42 PM
If you are rooting like a pair of crazed stoats you will be lucky to last 10 minutes but if you are making sweet, sweet love then its not difficult to go for 30 minutes or more.


Wtf??


You 'stud'.

acliff
05-08-2004, 10:47 PM
Wtf??


You 'stud'.

There I was getting the impression that you found that out all by yourself ;)

apoggy
05-08-2004, 10:47 PM
She wishes

Hazzle
05-08-2004, 11:29 PM
I've experienced it first hand...he lies :p 30 seconds more like :D

keiracaleb
06-08-2004, 12:58 PM
Virgin so there for wouldn't know(unlike some of my friends, the whores!) but this thread is both funny because of what some of you are saying and disgusting because of some of the info i'm getting! ah well at least i'll no what to do when i'm 16 lol.

Sarah
06-08-2004, 01:10 PM
My god! Reading all this is making me feel so... behind.

Hazzle
06-08-2004, 01:24 PM
Feeling...behind...I like feeling behinds.

keiracaleb
06-08-2004, 01:59 PM
ooh i bet u do.........ur own!

Hazzle
06-08-2004, 02:08 PM
Clever comeback...but we're getting off topic here...so let's not, eh?

keira_lover
07-08-2004, 12:41 AM
Still a virgin, so therefore wouldn't know. Great thread though. Funny as hell.

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Dr.No
18-08-2004, 05:50 AM
I play it by the 5 minute rule

Hazzle
18-08-2004, 10:53 AM
I play it by the 5 minute rule

What, you meet a girl, and within five minutes she's slapping you and walking away? Impressive you can last that long ;)